YOB ConvoCast 104 (FULL VIDEO): Tom & Drew Boa Outgrow Porn, Examine Fetishes, and Do Inner Child Work
Tom welcomes new friend Drew Boa of Husband Material to dive into his book, Outgrow Porn. Tom shares his favorite tools from Drew’s toolbox for overcoming porn and unwanted sexual behaviors, including the breathe-observe-attune (BOA) method, “connecting the dots” from shame to glory and loss to connection, and non-dominant handwriting to connect with your inner child. Adult Tom vulnerably shares some recent journal entries with Little Tom as he reflects on his own journey with loneliness and restlessness, particularly amongst other boys, and how this has fed an often irresistible attraction or fetish for certain aspects of straight men.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
Tom’s appearance on Drew Boa’s Husband Material podcast: “Why Men Need Men”
Drew Boa’s Husband Material community
Drew Boa’s book, Outgrow Porn
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
What tools have helped you outgrow porn and unwanted sexual behaviors? How have you connected with your inner child?
