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Welcome to the YOB ConvoCast – our short-form show featuring one-on-one conversations about faith, sexuality, and masculinity.

We don’t all agree with one another, and you may not agree with everything you hear. We invite you to enter each of our stories with a spirit of curiosity. Disagreeing is acceptable; if you leave a comment, please be respectful.

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YOB ConvoCast 104 (FULL VIDEO): Tom & Drew Boa Outgrow Porn, Examine Fetishes, and Do Inner Child Work

Tom welcomes new friend Drew Boa of Husband Material to dive into his book, Outgrow Porn. Tom shares his favorite tools from Drew’s toolbox for overcoming porn and unwanted sexual behaviors, including the breathe-observe-attune (BOA) method, “connecting the dots” from shame to glory and loss to connection, and non-dominant handwriting to connect with your inner child.

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YOB ConvoCast 072: Tom Feels Out "Androsexual" and Recaps the Series with Erin!

We finish our SPANNING THE SPECTRUM sexuality series by learning more of Tom’s story as Erin returns to take over hosting duties! Tom shares a new term he’s still feeling out for himself: androsexual, or an attraction to masculinity. Tom and Erin look back on the previous 9 episodes of this series, giving love to all our wonderful contributors!

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YOB ConvoCast 057: Tom & Eugene Got Sticky Stones at the Retreat!

Tom welcomes back fellow FOUR-TIME retreat-goer Eugene to recap our recently held YOBBERS retreat. Eugene shares a glimpse into his artist’s process handling retreat decor like glow-in-the-dark nametags and tribe stones, which turned out a tad slimier and stickier this year. Our tribe times were the favorite block of the retreat this year, from heartfelt discussions to the new silly photo contest! Eugene also catches us up on a new development in his life back home: joining a porn/sex support group with all straight guys.

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