Testimonials
YOB was the kickstarter for me finding genuine community during the pandemic after connecting deeply with the blogs/podcasts. Years later, this is the first time that I’ve had lasting friendships where we continue to laugh, grow, and share life together. Grateful to God for YOB.
– Robert, 28, Pennsylvania, giving since 2020
The day I found YOB I was intrigued. When I realized they had a book club, I knew I had found my people. I joined then and have only fallen more in love with the community, and through the community I’ve fallen more in love with Jesus.
– Andrew, 41, Maryland, married, giving since 2020
Growing up in a Christian family, I’ve come across plenty of individuals, groups, books, and resources that offer the “right way” of thinking on faith, sexuality, and masculinity. Amidst the range of wonderful podcasts, retreats, blogs, and conversations, I have found that Your Other Brothers stands out as a space that emphasizes and practices a “right way” of being. Belonging to one another in a way of service, love, curiosity, gentleness, and mutual respect, despite our differences. And who needs AirBnB when you have community members in nearly every state across the US and even in countries across the globe! I love getting to know my brothers and learning about what life has been like for them navigating faith, sexuality, and masculinity from wherever it is they call home.
– Daniel, 27, California, giving since 2020
The blogs, meetups, as well as Zoom meetings discuss issues that I cannot hear about from any other resource – from people who have a similar understanding of Scripture and a similar life circumstance, at least from a sexual identity standpoint. The reason that I want to pledge is to support our common voice in “the wilderness” that somehow is rarely heard in the church.
– Ed, 63, Alabama, married, giving since 2018
I follow YOB mostly through the podcasts, where from the moment I first heard Tom and the others share their stories, I knew I belonged and wanted to be a part of this community and support it. Especially as someone in the closet who feels he lives this life constantly unseen, it means so much to be known and loved here in the YOB community. Thank you YOB for giving me a home away from home!
– RP, 61, Washington, married, giving since 2016
I honestly didn’t know what to expect when I joined YOB because I never had anything like it during the 70s to early 2000s when I was struggling with my sexuality. To find a group of Christian guys who are also dealing with this kind of thing in their own lives was a dream come true. Things were a bit rocky at first because the majority of the guys were old enough to be my children, and I wasn’t sure how to talk to them without offending them. But as things went on I found my footing. I’ve gotten to know some great guys. The highlight for me is the annual YOB retreat. I’ve grown so much in my 43 years of being a believer; not only when it comes to my identity in Christ but also when learning more about who I am as a man and how my sexuality plays a role. The biggest thing I credit YOB for is that it’s empowered me to be more bold in sharing my story to others, especially the Christian and LGBTQ+ communities.
– Michael, 63, Florida, giving since 2018
As a person who has been a single gay Christian pursuing biblical sexuality my entire adult life, and closing in on middle age, YOB has provided me a safe space to connect with other brothers who understand my life circumstances, and can help empower me to live as a man of God in ways that no other group of men can.
– Jacob, 42, Nebraska, giving since 2016
Prior to finding the YOB blog and podcast, I never would have imagined a safe space to have such candid and vulnerable conversations surrounding same-sex attraction and other men’s issues. And once I experienced the virtual and in-person retreats, I knew I had found my people and that God was doing something truly special through us.
– Andrew, 28, Texas, giving since 2020
Never in my life had I ever thought or dreamed that another Christian wrestled with sexuality and faith the way that I do, but then I discovered Your Other Brothers. The raw, vulnerable blogs, the encouraging podcasts, and the Christ-centered community of YOB is what makes giving as easy as breathing. I am eternally grateful for YOB and the important role it has played in my growth in regards to faith and sexuality.
– Keegan, 25, California, giving since 2019
I joined YOB after having gone through some soul-searching myself and then finding the YOB blog to be so raw and genuine. This group of guys on our Discord server and Zoom calls makes me – a gay, celibate Christian – feel welcome and normal since I am not out of place here. Through our monthly book club, I have enjoyed digging into books I might have otherwise never read, and I really appreciate having the opportunity to be a part of our prayer calls when we lift each other up in prayer.
– John, 43, Kansas, giving since 2021
Before my therapist helped me find YOB, I didn’t know anyone personally who identified with my experience as a married Christian man almost exclusively attracted to men. I felt so alone, resigned that I always would be alone in this aspect of my journey. Finding and joining YOB literally changed my life forever. Now I have friends – dear friends – who get this part of me, something I never thought was possible. Sharing life with this new chosen family is one of God’s kindest and most gracious gifts to me. I am eternally grateful.
– Drew, 47, California, married, giving since 2023
Having struggled alone in reconciling my faith and sexuality for most of my life, the Lord provided this community as an answer to my prayers. Not only do I feel seen and known among these men, but I’ve also learned what it truly means to be a brother in Christ. Through the Zoom meetings and local connections, I have witnessed these men embody the love of Christ in our friendships and how they serve their communities. I am honored to walk alongside these courageous men of God.
– Alex, 32, California, giving since 2021
YOB reminds me that I am not alone in living a celibate life as a gay Christian. The blog stories and podcasts are often encouraging, especially when I know very few people following the same life path as me in the city where I live.
– Ian, 56, England, giving since 2022
My world changed when I found the YOB blog. Finally: men who were going through the same things as me. Through this community I have made many great connections and even a few lifelong friends.
– Joseph, 30, Minnesota, giving since 2017
I was introduced to YOB back in 2017 as I was just beginning to process through questions of faith and sexuality. Though I had to lurk for many years, this community gave me the courage to come out and begin faithfully following the Lord in his calling me to be open about my story to those around me. Thank you for the boldness of brothers who have come before me and their courage to share their stories.
– Jesse, 27, North Carolina, giving since 2021
One often hopes to find a community in which to share this journey of life. I am thankful to have found that community in YOB, especially in the latter part of my life. While I enjoy the Zoom discussions and book clubs, the annual retreats provide unique opportunities for connecting with YOBBERs from all over the US (and across the Atlantic) in conversations, activities, and worship. It is comforting to know that others are with me in my journey of faith and sexuality.
– Gordon, 72, Massachusetts, giving since 2021
Before joining YOB, I had no idea there were other men navigating the things I was wrestling with in secret. Discovering and joining this community was a profound blessing, and I have since met some of the most incredible, Christ-loving guys who are all walking this journey together with love, joy, grace, and humility. I think it’s fair to say that YOB changed my life.
– Kevin, 31, Ohio, giving since 2022
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