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Welcome to the YOB ConvoCast – our short-form show featuring one-on-one conversations about faith, sexuality, and masculinity.

We don’t all agree with one another, and you may not agree with everything you hear. We invite you to enter each of our stories with a spirit of curiosity. Disagreeing is acceptable; if you leave a comment, please be respectful.

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YOB ConvoCast 105 (FULL VIDEO): Ryan’s Launching a Singleness Conference!

Our other brother Ryan is launching a singleness conference in Raleigh, NC! Learn the details of his one-day event, Oaks, along with his heart for thriving singleness in the church, regardless of one’s sexuality or life stage. Do you have any questions or wish to submit a liturgy or reflection on singleness for the conference? Get in touch with Ryan; he’d love to hear from you!

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YOB ConvoCast 104 (FULL VIDEO): Tom & Drew Boa Outgrow Porn, Examine Fetishes, and Do Inner Child Work

Tom welcomes new friend Drew Boa of Husband Material to dive into his book, Outgrow Porn. Tom shares his favorite tools from Drew’s toolbox for overcoming porn and unwanted sexual behaviors, including the breathe-observe-attune (BOA) method, “connecting the dots” from shame to glory and loss to connection, and non-dominant handwriting to connect with your inner child.

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YOB ConvoCast 035 (FULL VIDEO): Tom & Fred on Coming Out and Coming In!

Tom welcomes his pastor to the show! Fred shares some tales from a recent road trip with his mom and unpacks his call to ministry, including how he never expected to be a lead pastor. He also describes his "coming in" story: his first interactions with gay people going all the way back to high school and college, and also his learning about "Side B" gay/SSA people in the church. What advice would Fred give to anyone listening who has never come out to a pastor before?

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