Welcome to our blog – featuring storytellers around the world, young and old, single and married, across faith traditions and the sexual identity and gender identity spectrums, writing authentically about our intersections with faith, sexuality, and masculinity.
We don’t all agree with one another, and you may not agree with everything you read. We invite you to enter each of our stories with a spirit of curiosity. Disagreeing is acceptable; if you leave a comment, please be respectful.
Your Testimony with Same-Sex Attraction isn’t Boring
Frankly, my testimony of same-sex attraction doesn’t include any sexual relations with another man. The “plainness” of my testimony is sometimes frustrating. What I’m honestly looking for in such vulnerable moments is a friend who will walk with me day by day as I strive to follow Jesus in my broken sexuality. In a sense, it’s not too complicated — but far too ordinary for many people.
The Futility of New Year’s Resolutions for Faith, Sexuality, and Masculinity
As I consider my history with broken New Year’s resolutions, I notice that they almost always fall into the three categories of faith, sexuality, and masculinity. This is true of resolutions I made many years ago, even before I heard of YOB and was simply trying to organize my life goals as best I knew in such a way that honored Jesus.